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At first this really broke my heart, and I questioned God as to why this would happen. The guy she’s dating, from what I can see, is a godly man and much in love with Jesus; therefore, I don’t know what I should do since I’m still attracted to her.
Throughout the past four years there hasn’t been a girl whom I was attracted to on such a deep level other than this girl.
The situation may seem hopeless, but there are ways to approach the situation tactfully.
Assess the situation, talk to her, and be respectful to get a date.
When you get together, remember that as difficult and maybe counter-intuitive as it seems, you should do your best to dial down your emotions when sharing your thoughts.
Right now I want to pray for an opportunity to be with her, but at the same time I don’t want to interfere with her current relationship.
I’d give it a week of prayer before you make the first contact about it.
Next, as much as it is possible, do this face-to-face.
So how do you handle such a sensitive and possibly boat-rocking conversation? First, start praying now and ask God to guide this process and to lead you in a way that pleases His heart and brings Him glory.
Pray about every detail of the conversation and pray it often.