Reasons for and against online dating
Some people are there just to validate themselves by seeing what kind of people they could attract, and how many.Amy has no intention of responding to my message, she probably already has the beefcake boyfriend, the Louis Vuitton handbag, the stupid little dog and the latest i Phone with a cracked screen because she’s ditsy Amy… Internet dating has the twisted beauty of allowing you to be picky and superficial; you’re essentially shopping for a man or a woman.
These things definitely lack in dating online, therefore making it a bad idea. May Get Awkward In Person This is one strange thing about online dating.
There may be for a few days an intense feeling of connection and bonding, but this is short lived. The major reason being that we don’t know any background of the partner we found online. And hence, there is always a sense of suspicion, doubt and insecurity with an online partner. Loyalty Loyalty is an inevitable parameter of love.
In the long run, it is almost impossible that both the hearts are equally loyal and serious for each other. For partners, insecurity, jealousy and anxiety are signs that they actually care for each other and have a sense of possession for them. What makes a relationship a relationship is loyalty. We never have the option to go for a background check for a partner we meet online. Even if we have some mutual friends, they can’t really be trusted. To find a relationship on the internet, where two hearts, even though miles apart, are loyal to each other, devoted to each other and ready to live together forever for each other, and only for each other is not only difficult but almost unattainable.
Thus, making for another reason why dating online is a bad idea. Physical Appearance: Not Enough How can we judge someone we meet online? Just because a person looks good, decent and sophisticated does not really assure it.
So, it is always better to date someone you actually know. Desperacy Isn’t it a desperate way to look out for a partner?