Racist dating black girl
We’re taught that The entire industry of beauty is geared towards white women. And so it’s natural to be a person of color and to view that as an elevated position and therefore pursue that.
I know a lot of people have a hard time dealing with rejection, but for me rejection has always been, you know, it’s saving my time, it’s saving my energy. I don’t believe in trying to explain to a man why I am desirable as a black woman. It has never really made any sense to me, and it is what it is. Right, because, and I can admit this, even though it’s really problematic: There was a time where I was guilty of putting racial preferences in my profile. Now we can have a whole conversation about Latino and how there are white Latinos, there are black Latinos, there are Asian Latinos, but that’s what I put in my profile, so we’re just going to be honest, okay?
At the same time, you have to think about that because again, I had so many white men sit across from me and say, “Oh, you’re not like those other black girls” or “You’re really pretty for a black girl.” “Because they have this idea of what a black woman is in their mind and they know that they don’t like that. We’re all hella, hella, hella diverse, especially black women.
We’re diverse, we have different interests, we have different things.
Does this video remind you of any of your dating experiences?
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