My best friend dating my ex boyfriend
I laughed and smiled more that first month than I ever had in my life.
He made me believe that I was somebody worth loving.
I don't think those are the rules of feminism so much as the rules of human decency. That's some Dawson-Joey-Pacey kind of betrayal, and I can only imagine the level of hurt you've been feeling. We don't betray the ones we love the most, or at least we try not to!
I dealt with a similar sort of situation with an ex and a best friend. I understand that no one is perfect and that shit does, in fact, sometimes happen, but your best friend and your ex hooking up is a BIG dump to take.
We had said from the beginning of our relationship that, no matter what happened, our friendship came first and we'd stay friends no matter what.
But it wasn't easy at all, and we thought of ending our friendship more times than I could count, but we never could.
Even though I no longer had feelings for my ex, that didn't mean I would want him shacking up with my best friend! Luckily, they didn't hook up, but I felt like my ex would have if given the opportunity. As far as I'm concerned, there's only one rule when it comes to friends dating exes and that is: YOU CAN' T DO IT. If that doesn't get your dick limp, I don't know what will. Because from the first time we hung out, he's been my very best friend.He's seen the good, the bad and the ugly in me, yet still chooses to stay. We still have unconditional love for each other, it's just in the form of a friendship now.I don't think those are the rules of feminism so much as the rules of human decency. That's some Dawson-Joey-Pacey kind of betrayal, and I can only imagine the level of hurt you've been feeling.I dealt with a similar sort of situation with an ex and a best friend.