Dating my guy named chae
Do you need to give into chasing your ex to get them back? If you are asking and wondering if your ex wants you to chase, I explain that the answer is most likely, “Yes.” But that does not mean that you should chase your ex just because they want to be chased.
Just because they want it to happen does not mean that it will bring them back if you do it.
I don’t want to date a narcissist or a guy who says awful things to me.
Your ex will then be the one reaching out to you, wanting to talk and for you to consider taking them back.
In order for the tables to turn and the roles to switch, you must resist the urge to chase or else your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend will continue to feel in control, more attractive than you, and that you are their backup plan should they ever change their mind (but they are very unlikely to if you chase).
It is only when your ex feels loss, misses you, and recognizes the importance that their relationship with you held in their life that they will take action to attempt to get back together with you.
Chasing your ex will only prevent them from being able to recognize and feel those things.