We often do not see the need for momentum and progression, which stems from the effects of having a plethora of options.However, if you want to ensure that you do not lose someone interesting, follow these tips on how to keep the momentum going in your dating life: A ‘sense of urgency’ when applied to dating means that you act with the realization that progressing the relationship forward is vital to the success of that relationship._____ The above is an excerpt from Jasbina’s interview with Rachel Greenwald The entire interview transcript is at: Rachel Greenwald Interview: Have Him At Hello!
One of the ones that I thought was interesting is what I call the “Miss Easy Breezy.” In the book, Have Him at Hello, I have the top five reasons why men do call back.
The proverbial ‘ball’ is being dropped every time you wait 4, 5, 6 or more days to reach out.
If someone you’re dating was the last person to text, or was the last person to initiate contact, that means the ball is officially in your court – and the clock is ticking.
A slow progression or intermittent lulls of no contact in between dates can potentially kill your chances with someone.
That means that you politely and considerately reach out and check in at least every couple of days.