College dating advice for men
Never invite a woman on a formal ‘date’ if all you are looking to do is engage in one or more episodes of short-term and/or non-monogamous ‘casual’ sex with her.
Just hook up with that woman and have sex with her; 1. Say it Again: Mastering the Fine Art of Verbal Seduction and Aural Sex’.
And that a lot of desperate people can start assuming things way too quickly. I think it’s a waste of time if some people are screwing around for a while and once someone asks “ok. Basically he offered me 1,000 a month if i go on 2 dates a month in a public place or if I go to a music festival with him......
But when I look in the dating world of today, or on social media, and in TV in stuff, people always make fun of the person asking that question, even if they are asking it in a general way or in a context that makes sense. My concern is, by doing this, will other guys think I'm taken?
Guys build up the occasion in their mind for days or weeks beforehand, only to be severely let down after the fact.
The goal of dating is to find someone who wants what you want, and wants that with you.
There’s usually the “ahhhh shit, here we go again” response when I see it. I def am too early in my 20s to be taken/have a steady relationship and just want fun. Not a ton because I'm an introvert and socializing tires me out.
In my opinion, I think it’s a valid question DEPENDING on the circumstances and the timing. But I would at least like some clarity so I don’t waste my own time putting energy into something that didn’t need it. I also deal with social anxiety, so in general socializing isn't something I'm heavily invested in.
I'm happy and grateful for everything; my career, my family, my friends and my health.
I do enjoy going out, but I don't care for bars or clubs, so when I do get out it's not ideal for meeting a partner. I'm aware you can't rush thing, but holy fuck am I lonely.